Asking for What You Deserve

It was at a Gloria Jean's. We had a blueberry cheesecake and iced mocha to share -- not that these details were important. There were other important things, like the imminent sob-fest I was entering. "T", I began. "I really think I'm going to fail." The last word came out in a ragged breath, leaving my lips…

New Coat of Paint

Outer order contributes to inner calm -- Gretchen Rubin I know understand why they say that having a messy desk is the key to some form of disorganised, chaotic, downward spiral of a downfall - because we human beings understand the world we live in by windows - our own eyes, our own sight -…

A Shut Down Necessary

I'm feeling the lowest I've ever been since...my last worst-I've-ever-been, and that's because I kind of have been neglecting the idea of taking measures to not neglect my mental health. Ooh. Double negatives and double negligence. That can never be good.

Where was Charlie?: Pulling together a Winning Sum

Charlie Lim (@wherewascharlie) and Jasper Tan (@vilecorpses) have been two people that I admired for a long time. And I was having a long (re: shitty as hell) day, thinking that I'd end up living life as a zero-sum game. I've listened to Charlie Lim before - he's a fixture on my Spotify 'favourites', 'quiet',…